Quiga 123 Talk Cards

Good questions start good conversations
Understand each other better

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  • Today's QuestionAllFamilyGatheringsLog in to add Today's Question to favorites

    Today's Question

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 30 questions

    1. HeartWhere your heart lingers

      What's the thought that has been on your mind most often lately?

    2. TodayWithin your day today

      What was the kindest moment you gave yourself today?

    3. ComfortWords you want close by

      When was the last time you felt at ease?

    4. YouA question for yourself

      If you could say one thing to yourself right now?

    5. BodySignals your body sends

      Did your body send you any signals today?

    6. GratitudeWhat you still haven't said

      Is there someone you still haven't thanked?

    7. IntentionA promise you make to yourself

      What's one thing you've been putting off lately?

    8. JoyA moment that lights you up

      What made you smile the brightest?

    9. AloneTime you enjoy on your own

      When do you enjoy having time to yourself?

    10. HopesWhen you voice what you hope for

      What do you most want to hear these days?

    11. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Have you discovered something new about yourself lately?

    12. HeartWhere your heart lingers

      When your mind feels busy, what do you do?

    13. TodayWithin your day today

      Was there a little beauty you simply passed by today?

    14. RelationshipsWhat lies between you

      Is there someone you still feel sorry toward?

    15. SparkEnergy returning to you

      What makes you feel most alive these days?

    16. Letting GoWhat you're ready to let go of

      What's one thing you want to let go of right now?

    17. TomorrowFor the days still ahead of you

      What would you like to say to yourself tomorrow?

    18. By Your SideSomeone close to you

      Who did you want to lean on today?

    19. FunSomething you can laugh off

      Is there a quirky little preference that’s been making you chuckle lately?

    20. WhimsicalWhen you don't have to be serious

      If you could be invisible for a day, where would you go first?

    21. ChoiceWhat your heart chooses

      If you could give yourself a little gift today, what would you choose?

    22. HabitSomething you do without noticing

      What’s one quirky habit only you know about?

    23. SoundA sound that stays with you

      What does your inner soundtrack sound like these days?

    24. TasteA taste your tongue remembers

      If today were a food, what flavor would it be?

    25. PlanYour own way of doing things

      If you could secretly make a plan to help tomorrow’s you, what would it be?

    26. ObjectSomething you've held onto for years

      What’s one thing you’ve kept by your side for a long time?

    27. PauseA moment for you to pause

      When did you wish you could pause for a moment?

    28. WaitingWhat hasn't reached you yet

      Is there something you’ve been quietly waiting for lately?

    29. LaughterA moment you laughed together

      Have you ever tried to look serious while laughing inside?

    30. MemoriesA scene that stays with you

      Has an old memory suddenly come back to you today?

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  • Heart WeatherAllFriendsLog in to add Heart Weather to favorites

    Heart Weather

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 30 questions

    1. TodayWithin your day today

      What is the weather in your heart like right now? Sunny or rainy—it's all okay.

    2. LingeringWhat stays with you

      What feeling stayed with you the longest today?

    3. BodySignals your body sends

      Where in your body do you feel that emotion right now?

    4. RainbowWhat comes after your cloudy days

      When did a little rainbow appear in your heart lately?

    5. FogWhere things still feel hazy to you

      Has a foggy feeling been settling in often lately?

    6. ThunderWhat thundered through your heart

      On a day you felt angry, what was the real feeling hiding underneath?

    7. SunshineWhere you feel the warmth

      What warmed you like sunshine today?

    8. HopesWhen you voice what you hope for

      What kind of weather in your heart would you most like right now?

    9. RainWhen your heart feels rain-soaked

      When sadness comes by, how do you welcome it?

    10. Face to FaceWhere you see each other

      Did you read any feelings in someone's expression today?

    11. By Your SideSomeone close to you

      Who understands your heart best these days?

    12. JoyA moment that lights you up

      When was joy so big you didn't know what to do with it?

    13. LakeWhere your heart grows still

      When did your heart feel like a still, quiet lake?

    14. NameA name you want to call

      If you gave this feeling a name right now, what would it be?

    15. WindWhere your heart is leading you

      Is there a wind of emotion that often shakes you up?

    16. ColorThe color you carry now

      If you painted today in a color, what would it be?

    17. KindnessThe warmth you leave behind

      Did you offer someone a kind word today?

    18. TomorrowFor the days still ahead of you

      How would you like to wake up feeling tomorrow?

    19. GrowthWhat you're growing little by little

      What is slowly growing inside you these days?

    20. SnackWhat you keep reaching for

      If you could give your heart a snack right now, what would it be?

    21. SoundA sound that stays with you

      If your feelings knocked on the door, what would they sound like?

    22. TemperatureThe warmth and chill you feel now

      What temperature is your heart at today?

    23. PaceYour pace these days

      Is your heart walking, running, or standing still these days?

    24. WeightWhat weighs on your heart

      What feeling are you carrying most heavily?

    25. LightnessWhere you let go

      Was there something that went better than you expected?

    26. WaveWhat washes over you, then fades

      After a wave of feelings comes and goes, what remains?

    27. ShadeWhere sunlight can't reach you

      Where do you feel like hiding away for a moment?

    28. NightWhat stays with you before sleep

      What scene comes to mind most often before you fall asleep?

    29. Self-talkThe words you say to yourself

      What have you said to yourself the most in your heart today?

    30. ForecastThe weather ahead of you

      What would your heart's forecast for this week be?

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  • Untranslatable FeelingsAllFriendsLog in to add Untranslatable Feelings to favorites

    Untranslatable Feelings

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 30 questions

    1. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Saudade — A wistful longing for someone or something far away.

    2. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Wabi-sabi — Beauty in things aged and imperfect.

    3. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Hygge — Simple as candlelight, cozy even on your own.

    4. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Komorebi — Sunlight filtering through leaves.

    5. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Iktsuarpok — The urge to keep looking out to see if someone's coming.

    6. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Mångata — A path of moonlight on the water.

    7. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Meraki — Doing something with all your heart.

    8. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Sobremesa — Easy conversation lingering after a meal.

    9. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Fernweh — A pull toward faraway places you've never been.

    10. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Cafuné — The tender touch of stroking someone you love's hair.

    11. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Gigil — Finding someone so cute you just have to squeeze them.

    12. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Toska — A dull ache in your heart with no reason why.

    13. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Lagom — Neither too much nor too little— just the right amount.

    14. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Tsundoku — Books you've piled up without reading.

    15. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Forelsket — The thrill of falling in love.

    16. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Shemomedjamo — It's so good you keep eating even when you're full.

    17. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Ubuntu — You are, so I am.

    18. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Sturmfrei — The freedom to enjoy the whole house all by yourself.

    19. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Sisu — Quiet determination that doesn't give up easily.

    20. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Flâner — Strolling slowly through the streets with nowhere in particular to go.

    21. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Gezellig — A cozy feeling that only comes alive when people are together.

    22. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Nunchi — A knack for reading the room before anyone says a word.

    23. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Tartle — That pause when a name suddenly slips your mind.

    24. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Aloha — A greeting and love, the spirit of sharing breath.

    25. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Litost — The ache of feeling hurt and sorry for yourself.

    26. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Tarab — The rapture you feel when music stirs you deeply.

    27. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Naches — The pride that swells in you when someone dear to you thrives.

    28. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Dolce far niente — The sweetness of doing nothing.

    29. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Hüzün — A shared melancholy settling over an entire city.

    30. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Gluggaveður — Weather that is lovely through a window but hard to step out into.

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  • A Piece of an Old ThoughtAllGatheringsLog in to add A Piece of an Old Thought to favorites

    A Piece of an Old Thought

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 30 questions

    1. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      The Unexamined Life — An old question: does a day without self-reflection simply slip away?

    2. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      The Power of Softness — The idea that what is soft outlasts what is rigid.

    3. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      The Self Shaped by Repetition — The idea that you become what you do every day.

    4. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      What Is Yours—and What Isn’t — Ancient wisdom about telling apart what you can and cannot change.

    5. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      The Joy of Learning — The quiet joy of learning and revisiting what you’ve learned.

    6. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      The Wealth of Time — The idea that you don’t lack time— you let it slip away.

    7. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      The Path to Yourself — The idea that the longest journey is the one that leads you to yourself.

    8. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      The Usefulness of the Useless — The idea that what seems useless can make your life larger.

    9. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Sitting Still — Your power to sit quietly can solve many problems.

    10. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Life Understood in Hindsight — You understand life only after it has passed.

    11. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      A Dancing Star — Your inner chaos can give birth to something new.

    12. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Now, the Person Beside You — Your most important time is now; your most important person is beside you.

    13. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      The Joy of Friendship — The greatest ingredient in your good life is a close friend.

    14. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      A Morning Resolve — Your first thought of the day sets the tone for your day.

    15. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Walking and Thinking — Some thoughts come to you only when you walk.

    16. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Breaking It Down — Break a hard problem into pieces you can solve.

    17. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      The World Your Mind Paints — You see the world as your mind paints it.

    18. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      The Night Sky and the Voice Within — The stars above and the voice within quiet you without a word.

    19. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Paying Close Attention — Love is your power to truly see someone.

    20. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      The Danger of Not Thinking — Your ordinary thoughtlessness can become dangerous.

    21. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      The Limits of Language — Your world grows only as wide as the words you have.

    22. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Becoming Who You Are — You aren't simply born who you are; you become yourself as you live.

    23. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Having and Being — Who you are says more about you than what you have.

    24. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Living On Anyway — Even without an answer for why you live, you choose to keep living.

    25. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Courage and Connection — Life's challenges ask you for courage in your relationships.

    26. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Love in Action — Love is something you practice, not just something you feel.

    27. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Starting Close to Home — Your greatest principles begin in your closest relationships.

    28. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Understanding Your Emotions — When you understand your emotions, they pull you around less.

    29. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      One Precious Life — A gaze that asks how you’ll spend your one precious life.

    30. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      Small Acts — A mindset that looks first at your own actions when you want the world to change.

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  • A Half-Day Just for YouAllLog in to add A Half-Day Just for You to favorites

    A Half-Day Just for You

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 30 questions

    1. AlleyA path you've never walked

      Take a turn down an alley you've never been through before.

    2. BookstoreWhen you're among the books

      At a bookstore, choose a book just by its cover.

    3. BenchTime you spend sitting awhile

      Sit on a sunny bench for fifteen minutes and do absolutely nothing.

    4. MarketAs you weave through the crowd

      Pick up a fruit you've never seen before at the market.

    5. MusicWhen you let the music carry you

      Pick one song and listen to it all the way through three times as you walk.

    6. Window SeatWhere you gaze outside

      Sit alone in a café, leave your phone aside, and look out the window.

    7. One ShotA scene you want to keep

      On today's walk, take just one photo of a moment that speaks to you.

    8. ScentA scent that lingers with you

      Take a walk around the neighborhood following the scent of the season.

    9. ArtworkSomething you gazed at for a long time

      Go see a nearby exhibition or a piece of art.

    10. SkyThe moment you look up

      Around sunset, head somewhere with a good view of the sky.

    11. PostcardA few lines you want to send

      Buy a postcard at a stationery shop and write a note to yourself right there.

    12. TreeWhat stands with you in the same place

      Find the biggest tree in your neighborhood and stand beneath it for a while.

    13. BusWhen the view flows past your window

      Hop on any bus for five stops, then get off somewhere unfamiliar and walk.

    14. An Old PlaceA place where time has gathered around you

      Stop by the oldest shop in your neighborhood and buy any one thing.

    15. BookshelvesWhen you face an unfamiliar bookshelf

      Spend thirty minutes among shelves you've never explored at the library.

    16. WatersideWhen you're beside flowing water

      Whether it's a river or a stream, take a walk along some flowing water.

    17. Early EveningWhen you see the lights come on

      After dinner, take a thirty-minute walk with no destination in mind.

    18. Early MorningWhen your day opens

      On a day off, head out an hour earlier than usual and watch your neighborhood wake up.

    19. FingertipsWhat you feel at your fingertips

      As you walk, gently touch three things that catch your eye with your fingertips.

    20. A LineA line that stays on your mind

      Make one line from a sign you see on the street your line for today.

    21. StairsWhere you go up and down

      Take the stairs instead of the elevator and slowly climb just one floor.

    22. Flower ShopWhen you're among the blooms

      Pick the one color that draws you in most outside a flower shop.

    23. An Old SpotA place you return to

      Visit a place you used to go to often for the first time in a while.

    24. PicnicA day you pack up and head out

      Find a spot near home that feels most like a picnic, and sit down.

    25. An Unfamiliar TasteA flavor you're tasting for the first time

      Choose a menu item you never usually order on purpose.

    26. ShadowA place the light made for you

      In daylight, slowly walk along with your own shadow.

    27. SecondhandSomething that came to you through someone else

      Browse a secondhand item and imagine its previous owner.

    28. A Rainy DayA day you walk through the rain

      When it rains, stand outside under an umbrella for just five minutes.

    29. A Little LuxuryA little something you give yourself

      Treat yourself to one very small luxury.

    30. Letting GoWhat you're ready to let go of

      Choose one thing at home to take out, then drop it in a donation or collection box.

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  • With FamilyFamilyGatheringsLog in to add With Family to favorites

    With Family

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 30 questions

    1. GratitudeWhat you still haven't said

      Which family member are you most grateful for today?

    2. MemoriesA scene that stays with you

      What day did you laugh the most together?

    3. HopesWhen you voice what you hope for

      What is one thing you’d like to do together this year?

    4. GrowthWhat you're growing little by little

      How have you grown since last year?

    5. ForgivenessSomething you want to release

      Is there a small disappointment you’ve kept to yourself?

    6. MemoriesA scene that stays with you

      Do you remember the smells or sounds of your childhood home?

    7. GratitudeWhat you still haven't said

      What do you take for granted but are truly grateful for?

    8. HopesWhen you voice what you hope for

      What is one thing you hope for from each other?

    9. GrowthWhat you're growing little by little

      What have you been trying hardest at lately?

    10. MemoriesA scene that stays with you

      Do you share an inside joke or a special nickname?

    11. ForgivenessSomething you want to release

      What would you still like to say, even if it’s late?

    12. HopesWhen you voice what you hope for

      What do you hope you’ll be like together in 10 years?

    13. GrowthWhat you're growing little by little

      What would you like to learn from each other?

    14. GratitudeWhat you still haven't said

      Who makes you think, "I’m glad you’re here"?

    15. HopesWhen you voice what you hope for

      What would you like to do together next weekend?

    16. ForgivenessSomething you want to release

      Have you ever been too hard on yourself?

    17. GrowthWhat you're growing little by little

      What’s a good change that’s happened between you lately?

    18. MemoriesA scene that stays with you

      If you could sum up today in one sentence?

    19. MorningWhere your day begins

      What does morning look like in your home?

    20. MealsA place where you sit together

      Of all the meals you've shared, which one stands out most?

    21. PhotosA moment you captured

      If you could take a family photo again, what pose would be fun?

    22. RulesA promise just between you

      What's a quirky rule only your family has?

    23. Cheering Each Other OnSomeone you want to cheer on

      What's one encouraging thing you'd like to say to each other these days?

    24. Favorite SpotWhere you stand

      What's your favorite spot at home?

    25. RolesThe part each of you plays

      What's an unseen role you take on at home?

    26. RelaxingA moment for you to rest

      When your family is together, how would you like to relax?

    27. Making UpA bond you want to mend

      After an argument, how does your family start smiling again?

    28. Special DaysA day you mark as special

      If you could create a special day just for your family, what kind of day would it be?

    29. PrideSomething you don't have to hide

      If you were to brag about someone in your family, what would you say?

    30. Passed DownWhat has been passed down to you

      Is there something that's been passed down in your family for a long time?

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  • Switch SeatsFriendsGatheringsWorkLog in to add Switch Seats to favorites

    Switch Seats

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 30 questions

    1. JoyA moment that lights you up

      What has been making this person laugh the most lately?

    2. WearinessWhat rests on your shoulders

      What has this person been working hardest at lately?

    3. HopesWhen you voice what you hope for

      What does this person want most right now?

    4. WorryWhat weighs on your mind

      Is there something this person may be quietly worrying about?

    5. ComfortWords you want close by

      What kind of comfort does this person need most right now?

    6. PrideSomething you don't have to hide

      What is this person most proud of about themselves?

    7. RestHow you get your energy back

      What does real rest look like for this person?

    8. ChildhoodWho you were back then

      What kind of child was this person?

    9. DreamThe picture you hold in your heart

      What dream has this person put off for a while?

    10. Hurt FeelingsThe mark left on your heart

      When might this person have felt hurt by you?

    11. GratitudeWhat you still haven't said

      What is this person grateful to you for?

    12. PlacesWhere your feet want to linger

      Where has this person been going often lately?

    13. A DayWhat filled your day

      What would a good day look like for this person?

    14. A Few WordsIf you could leave just one line

      What does this person most want to hear right now?

    15. CourageThe strength to take your next step

      What's one small challenge this person could try even today?

    16. By Your SideSomeone close to you

      When things are hard, who does this person turn to first?

    17. ChangeWhere things changed for you

      What good change has come into this person's life lately?

    18. TomorrowFor the days still ahead of you

      What moment is this person looking forward to most tomorrow?

    19. HabitSomething you do without noticing

      What habit do you think this person wants to break but keeps doing?

    20. Inside JokeThe lighthearted words you share

      What kind of silly joke do you think this person secretly enjoys?

    21. SnackWhat you keep reaching for

      What snack do you think helps this person feel a little better?

    22. CatchphrasesWhat's behind the words you often use

      What have you noticed this person saying a lot lately?

    23. Missing SomeoneWhat keeps coming back to you

      Who do you think this person has been thinking of lately?

    24. Being Hard on YourselfWhere you're hardest on yourself

      What do you think this person is kind to others about but hard on themself about?

    25. MisunderstandingsWhere you got your wires crossed

      What is something you often misunderstand about this person?

    26. PraiseSomething good you want to point out

      What compliment do you think this person would hold close for a long time?

    27. PaceYour pace these days

      Do you feel like this person's heart has been racing or moving slowly lately?

    28. HelpThe hand you can offer

      What help do you think this person hasn't been able to ask for?

    29. HobbiesWhat you make time for

      What hobby do you think this person would be good at once they got into it?

    30. The FutureHow you see yourself far from now

      What do you think this person hopes to be like ten years from now?

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  • Either-Or QuestionsNew PeopleGatheringsWorkLog in to add Either-Or Questions to favorites

    Either-Or Questions

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 39 questions

    1. Comfort · AdventureWhere you feel torn

      A familiar place or an unfamiliar road, which way are you leaning right now?

    2. Honesty · ConsiderationThe warmth in your words

      A painful truth or a kind silence, which would you choose?

    3. Alone · TogetherHow you feel fulfilled

      On a day when you need to recharge, would you rather be alone or with someone?

    4. Wide · DeepWhere your heart reaches and digs deep

      Lots of connections or a few deep ones, which fills you up more?

    5. Now · LaterWhat you keep putting off

      Today's joy or preparing for tomorrow, which do you put first?

    6. Words · TimeThe time your words need to ripen

      When your feelings get hurt, do you say it right away or wait a day?

    7. City · NatureWhere you want to stay

      If you could live somewhere for a month, would you choose city lights or forest mornings?

    8. Remembering · ForgettingWhat you keep and what you let go

      Remembering everything or forgetting easily, if you could choose just one?

    9. Questions · AnswersWhat you find harder

      Knowing every answer or having one good question—which would you choose?

    10. Fast · SlowThe pace that suits you

      Getting there quickly or taking it slow, which pace feels more like you?

    11. Planning · SpontaneityHow you choose your path

      When you pack for a trip, do you follow an itinerary or go with the flow?

    12. Changing · AcceptingWhere you choose to make a change

      When something won't change easily, do you try to change it or accept it?

    13. Your Judgment · AdviceWhat you lean on when deciding

      When facing an important decision, do you decide alone or ask someone first?

    14. Perfect · DoneHow you bring things to a close

      Finishing even if it's not quite enough or making it perfect, even if it takes longer—which would you choose?

    15. Giving · ReceivingWhat comes more easily to you

      Which is harder for you: giving or receiving?

    16. New · FamiliarWhat you naturally reach for

      Something exciting and new or something old and familiar, which one do you reach for?

    17. Courage · CautionYour step forward and your step back

      When an opportunity comes along, do you jump in first or weigh it first?

    18. Process · ResultWhat you keep your eyes on longer

      The time you put in or the fruit it bears, which stays with you longer?

    19. Love · FreedomWhat you find hard to hold together

      The comfort of being loved or the freedom of solitude, which do you need more right now?

    20. Holding Back · Speaking UpThe words you swallow

      Holding back to protect a relationship or speaking up to protect it—which feels right to you?

    21. Family · YouWhere both you and your family matter

      When your family's expectations and your own path differ, what do you look at first?

    22. Work · LifeWhere you divide the weight

      Work you love and a life you want to protect— if they clash, what would you hold on to?

    23. Care · IndependenceWhen you hold on and let go

      Where is the line between caring for someone and taking care of yourself?

    24. Money · MeaningWhen you weigh what matters to you

      Enough money and enough meaning— which way are you leaning right now?

    25. Making Up · DistanceThe steps you take toward someone

      Getting close again or keeping a healthy distance, which takes more courage?

    26. Memories · TruthBetween what you recall and what you know now

      Preserving happy memories or facing the truth—which would you choose?

    27. Waiting · DecidingHow you choose the right moment

      Love that waits a little longer or the decision to end it—which feels more honest?

    28. Parent · YouWhere you stand between two names

      The parent in you and the person you are— which one is hungrier?

    29. Apology · ExplanationWhat you say first

      Saying sorry or explaining why, which needs to come first?

    30. Promises · FlexibilityWhat you hold to and what you let bend

      Keeping the promise you made or adjusting it to fit the moment, which shows trust?

    31. Present · PastThe time your eyes linger on

      As you get to know someone, do you look at who they are now or where they've been?

    32. Body · MindWhich voice you choose to follow

      Your body says stop, but your mind says keep going— who do you listen to today?

    33. Marriage · DatingHow you feel before a promise

      A promise to build a life together or the excitement you feel now, what do you need to check more closely?

    34. Forgiveness · ResponsibilityWhat you let go and what you hold to account

      A forgiving heart and holding someone responsible, how can the two go together?

    35. Lightness · DepthHow deeply your heart connects

      Will you laugh it off today, or explore it a little more deeply?

    36. Taking Sides · FairnessWhere your heart goes first

      Taking the side of someone close to you or seeing things fairly, which feels more like love?

    37. Leaving · StayingWhere your feet lead you

      Which feels harder right now: finding the courage to leave, or the courage to stay and see it through?

    38. Words · ActionsHow your feelings reach someone

      When you show how you feel, do you use words, or let your actions speak?

    39. The Way You Say It · Your HeartWhat you hear and what lies within

      Was it the way they ended their words that hurt you, or the feeling you heard beneath them?

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  • Deep for TwoCouplesLoved OnesLog in to add Deep for Two to favorites

    Deep for Two

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 39 questions

    1. These DaysThe season you're moving through

      What's been weighing on you the most these days?

    2. YouA question for yourself

      When do you feel most like your best self?

    3. ComfortWords you want close by

      Have you received any comfort lately?

    4. A DayWhat filled your day

      What does your idea of a "good day" look like?

    5. Inner VoiceWords you keep to yourself

      What's the harsh thing you say to yourself most often?

    6. PraiseSomething good you want to point out

      What kind of compliment makes you happiest?

    7. By Your SideSomeone close to you

      Who knows you best?

    8. CrossroadsWhen your path split in two

      Is there a choice you've been thinking hard about lately?

    9. ChildhoodWho you were back then

      What kind of kid were you?

    10. Missing SomeoneWhat keeps coming back to you

      Who's the person you've been thinking of most lately?

    11. RestHow you get your energy back

      What does rest look like to you?

    12. ForgivenessSomething you want to release

      Is there someone you still haven't forgiven who stays on your mind?

    13. CourageThe strength to take your next step

      Is there something you'd like to try even though it scares you?

    14. SparkEnergy returning to you

      What makes you feel alive?

    15. LessonsWhat you're taking with you

      Is there something that stayed with you as a lesson rather than a regret?

    16. Favorite SpotWhere you stand

      Where have you felt most at ease lately?

    17. A Few WordsIf you could leave just one line

      What's something you really want to hear?

    18. Right NowThis very moment you're in

      What has nobody ever asked you about?

    19. DistanceThe space between you

      How much distance do you feel between us these days?

    20. SafetyWhere you can let your guard down

      When do you feel most at ease with me?

    21. RepeatingWhat keeps repeating in your life

      What conversation do we keep having again and again?

    22. WindWhere your heart is leading you

      What's one little thing you wish I would notice?

    23. ApologyThe words you need to offer

      Is there a moment you wish you could say again, even though it came out awkwardly?

    24. Rough PatchWhat you've made it through together

      Of all the time we've been through together, when was the hardest?

    25. AloneTime you enjoy on your own

      When do you want some time to yourself, even when we're together?

    26. UsWhat lives between the two of you

      If you had to describe us these days in one word, what would it be?

    27. Inside JokeThe lighthearted words you share

      What's a funny joke between us that still makes you laugh?

    28. BoundariesThe line you don't want crossed

      Even when you love someone, what's a line you don't want crossed?

    29. ChangeWhere things changed for you

      How do you see the ways I've changed since we first met?

    30. GratitudeWhat you still haven't said

      Is there something you're grateful for but haven't said because it's become so familiar?

    31. Hurt FeelingsThe mark left on your heart

      What did you brush off as no big deal but still carry with you?

    32. DreamThe picture you hold in your heart

      How can I support your dream without getting in its way?

    33. BodySignals your body sends

      Is there something your body has been telling you lately that you'd like me to notice?

    34. MoneyWhat you find hard to bring up

      When we talk about money, what feelings do we avoid?

    35. FamilyA story that takes you back to your roots

      How do the ways our families taught us to love still show up between us?

    36. ConflictWhere you clashed

      Before an argument begins, what signals do we miss?

    37. Making UpA bond you want to mend

      After an argument, what do you need to feel close again?

    38. PromisesWhat you've pledged to each other

      What words would you like to agree not to say to each other anymore?

    39. What’s NextWhat comes next for you

      After this conversation, what’s the smallest thing you could try doing together?

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    Someday Questions

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 39 questions

    1. MemoriesA scene that stays with you

      Far in the future, how would you like the people close to you to remember you?

    2. TodayWithin your day today

      If today were an especially wonderful day, what would you want to do first?

    3. WordsWhat you haven't said yet

      Of the things you haven't said yet, what do you most want to tell someone?

    4. ObjectSomething you've held onto for years

      If you could leave one treasured possession to someone, who would it be, and what would you leave?

    5. ForgivenessSomething you want to release

      When you think about someday, is there something in your heart you'd like to let go of first?

    6. What You Leave BehindWhat you leave along the way

      Is there something you could start that someone else could carry on?

    7. TimeIf you don't have enough time

      If time were short, what would you let go of first?

    8. By Your SideSomeone close to you

      What three things would you want to keep by your side until the end?

    9. LessonsWhat you're taking with you

      What's the biggest thing life has taught you so far?

    10. LetterWords you want to write down

      If you wrote a letter to your family far in the future, what would the first sentence be?

    11. JoyA moment that lights you up

      What's something you feel you did really well in life?

    12. RegretWhat you wish you'd done differently

      If you had to stop now, what would you regret most?

    13. SceneryA view you've kept in your eyes

      What kind of scene would you like the final season of your life to hold?

    14. NameA name you want to call

      If you could leave one sentence beside your name, what would it be?

    15. GratitudeWhat you still haven't said

      When you think of the person you're most grateful to have met, who comes to mind?

    16. HandsWhat your hands remember

      What's something your hands have done for a long time?

    17. LightWhat still shines brightly for you

      What's your favorite light of the day— what time is it?

    18. Seeing Someone OffBeside someone who left before you

      When you think of someone who left before you, what comes to mind first?

    19. DeclutteringWhat you keep as you clear things away

      What corner of your room would you like to tidy up right now?

    20. PeopleSomeone who stayed in your heart

      Who would you like to stay close to without misunderstandings until the very end?

    21. BodySignals your body sends

      If you thanked your body, what part would come to mind first?

    22. RegretWhat you wish you'd done differently

      If you turned one regret into a lesson, what would that sentence be?

    23. LegacyWhat you want to leave behind

      Besides money, what way of living would you like to leave behind?

    24. LaughterA moment you laughed together

      What would you like people at your funeral to say about you with a smile?

    25. FoodWhat you want to taste again

      What food would you want to eat often in your final season?

    26. SongA song you've hummed for years

      If your life were a movie, what song would play at the end?

    27. PreparationWhat you prepare ahead of time

      Is there something only you know that someone else should know too?

    28. WritingWhat you want to put into words

      If only one thing you wrote could remain, what would you want it to be?

    29. ChildrenFor someone you're watching grow

      What is one thing you really want to say to the next generation?

    30. PhotosA moment you captured

      If you took a new photo that captured your life in one frame, what scene would it show?

    31. HomeThe place you come home to

      What place would you like to feel like home until the very end?

    32. FearWhat you find hard to say

      When you think about the end, what fear comes to you first?

    33. PeaceWhere you find stillness

      When thoughts of the end leave you unsettled, what helps you feel grounded?

    34. FarewellThe words you never got to say

      Is there someone you still haven't thanked?

    35. RequestWords you want to share early

      What is one thing you would like to ask the people close to you in advance?

    36. SeasonsA season that returns to you

      If your life had four seasons, what season would you be in now?

    37. GiftWhat you want to give

      If your remaining time were a gift, who would you like to share it with today?

    38. Inside JokeThe lighthearted words you share

      Even if you think about the end, what's a joke of yours you never want to lose?

    39. LoveWhat you want to cherish more

      At this very moment, what would you like to love more?

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    Getting to Know Each Other

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 30 questions

    1. A Long LookWhat your eyes keep returning to

      Have you ever spent a long time looking at something that everyone else just walked past?

    2. The Question That Moved YouWhen curiosity leads

      Is there something you started out of curiosity and ended up actually doing?

    3. What Fun IsYou never know where it comes from

      Is fun something you are given, something you make, or something you feel?

    4. Losing Track of TimeWhen you sink all the way in

      Is there something you do that makes time disappear?

    5. An Unguarded LaughLaughter that comes on its own

      What has been making you laugh most freely these days?

    6. A Day Gone WrongWhen nothing goes to plan

      When things fall apart, what do you say first?

    7. What Stays AnywayWhat stayed, though not enough

      Have you ever looked for something worth keeping even on a day that went badly?

    8. The Same Me EverywhereWhen outside and inside match

      Do you tend to be the same person wherever you are?

    9. A Small Rule of MineKept quietly all along

      Is there a small rule you keep so you never drift from what you feel is right?

    10. The Moment You Had to SpeakHarder than staying quiet

      Was there a moment when staying quiet would have been easier, but you had to speak?

    11. What You Cannot Let GoWhat you would carry to the end

      If you named five things in your life you could not let go of, what would they be?

    12. DirectionWhere your feet are pointed

      Where do you feel you are heading right now?

    13. Being YourselfThe way that suits you

      Have you ever chosen doing something your own way over doing it better than anyone else?

    14. Year After YearWhat never broke off

      Is there something you have kept up year after year without letting go?

    15. Even If No One AsksWhat you do on your own

      Is there something you do every day even though nobody asked you to?

    16. What You Learned from YourselfWhat you left yourself

      Coming through a hard stretch, did you learn something from yourself?

    17. What Made You StrongerStrength that came afterward

      Is there something you would never want to go through again that still made you stronger?

    18. Better Than You KnewOnly clear later

      Was there a moment you only realized later, thinking “I actually did pretty well”?

    19. What You Did ThenOn the day it shook hardest

      Facing the thing that fell apart the most, what did you do first?

    20. Building It BackWhere it began again

      Was there one very small act that helped you rebuild what had fallen?

    21. Where Learning Comes FromWhat made you grow

      Where does learning mostly come from for you?

    22. AskingSaying you do not know

      Is asking about something you do not know easy for you, or does it take you a while?

    23. A Changed MindWhen it starts looking different

      Has there been a moment lately that changed your mind?

    24. Beyond Your RolePast what you were given

      Have you ever reached for work that lay outside the role you were given?

    25. A Good ColleagueThinking of the desk beside you

      What kind of person is a good colleague to you?

    26. What You Were GivenThe kindness you were shown

      Has someone ever been a good colleague to you?

    27. What Kind of ColleagueWho you are beside others

      How would you describe yourself as a colleague?

    28. Working TogetherHow the work changed shape

      Have you ever worked alongside AI?

    29. Your PartWhat only you can do

      What do you think is your part that AI cannot take over?

    30. ProofWhat shows before words

      What is the one choice that showed you at your most yourself?

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    Questions for a First Gathering

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 30 questions

    1. First FeelingWhat you brought with you

      Before you came here, what was the weather like inside you?

    2. NameA name you want to call

      What is one small hint that makes your name easy to remember today?

    3. Favorite SpotWhere you stand

      From where you are sitting now, what caught your eye first?

    4. PaceYour pace these days

      Do you grow close to people quickly, or slowly?

    5. Feeling at EaseWhen your guard comes down

      When you meet people for the first time, what puts you a little at ease?

    6. ExpressionWhat your face says first

      When you feel awkward, what does your face do most often?

    7. What You Want to Know FirstWhere your curiosity goes first

      What is the one thing you would like to know first about the people here?

    8. You TodayYou, here, today

      What face did you bring with you here today?

    9. What You Keep Looking UpWhat you look into alone

      Is there something you often look up on your own these days?

    10. A Favorite Time of DayThe hour you save for yourself

      Which time of day do you like best?

    11. What You Listen ToWhat stays in your ear

      Is there a song or a story you keep coming back to lately?

    12. Somewhere You WentA place that comes back to you

      Of the places you have been lately, is there one you would go back to?

    13. Something to Ask TodayWhat you would bring up now

      Is there something you would like to quietly ask the people here today?

    14. An Old CuriosityCarried for years

      Is there one thing you have oddly wondered about ever since you were small?

    15. NicknameThe name you went by

      What nickname would you use for today only?

    16. SuperpowerA power you would want

      If you had a superpower for first meetings, what would it be?

    17. An ObjectOne thing you keep close

      If you were one thing inside your bag right now, what would it be?

    18. SnackWhat you keep reaching for

      If this gathering were a snack, what would it taste like?

    19. SoundA sound that stays with you

      If you laid background music under this opening, what mood should it have?

    20. What Stood OutWhere your eyes land

      Coming into this room, was there a person or an object you noticed first?

    21. Today in WeatherToday's weather inside you

      If you described how you feel today as weather, what would it be?

    22. Getting ThroughSlipping past it

      What is your own way of easing past an awkward moment?

    23. Something You Are Good AtGrown quietly

      Is there something you are quietly good at that other people do not know about?

    24. Something You LearnedWhat meeting someone left you

      Have you learned something from meeting someone for the first time?

    25. Words You Are Glad to HearWords that open you up

      What words are you glad to hear when you meet someone new?

    26. DifferenceThe side unlike yours

      Has someone completely unlike you ever drawn your interest?

    27. A Moment You LaughedA smile already spreading

      In a room full of strangers, is there a moment you find yourself laughing?

    28. MemoriesA scene that stays with you

      What was there in a first meeting that stayed with you for a long time?

    29. HopeWhat you are hoping for

      When this time comes to an end, how would you like to feel?

    30. What’s NextWhat comes next for you

      What question would you like to ask next, when you meet again?

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    A Cup of Tea with a Colleague

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 30 questions

    1. Today's PaceHow today has moved

      Has your day today gone quickly, or slowly?

    2. Today's EnergyWhat you have in you now

      Where is your energy sitting today?

    3. A Long-Held LikingUnchanged all this time

      Is there one thing you have loved for a long time?

    4. This SpotNow that you are sitting here

      In this spot right now, what do you like most?

    5. The Rest of the DayThe hours still left

      In the time left today, what do you most want to do?

    6. Never SkippedKept every single day

      Is there something you never skip, no matter how busy you are?

    7. ObjectSomething you've held onto for years

      If you picked one thing from your desk or bag that is most like you, what would it be?

    8. These DaysThe season you're moving through

      Is there a thought that has been holding on to you lately?

    9. Getting SidetrackedA side road you take without noticing

      Is there something you drift into without noticing while you work?

    10. Ten MinutesA little time you give yourself

      If ten minutes opened up and nobody needed you, how would you want to rest?

    11. BreathWhere your breath returns

      When you feel tense, what helps you steady your breath?

    12. Sound EffectOne sound that comes to mind

      If you added a sound effect between us, what sound comes to mind?

    13. WordsWhat you haven't said yet

      Is there a phrase of your own that you keep using lately?

    14. A One-Line NoteA mark you leave behind

      If you set down how you feel today in a single line, what would you write?

    15. LunchThe middle of the day

      How do you usually spend your lunch break?

    16. How You RestWhen rest actually happens

      What kind of rest leaves you feeling most rested?

    17. HandsWhat your hands remember

      When you sink into thought, what are your hands doing?

    18. UnexpectedGrowing close slowly

      Is there a colleague you grew close to only later on?

    19. Looking AfterQuietly looking out

      What is something you tend to and care about that people rarely notice?

    20. SignalsWhat shows on the outside

      When your mood shifts, what signal shows up in your face or the way you speak?

    21. An OpeningTime that suddenly opened

      When an unexpected opening appears, do you rest, or do you fill it with something?

    22. Being UnderstoodThe moment you were not alone

      Was there a moment when someone understood how you felt?

    23. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      What side of a person is a joy to discover as you spend time together?

    24. EaseWhere the tension lets go

      Where do you feel most at ease these days?

    25. Rough PatchWhat you've made it through together

      Is there a small rough patch you are getting through lately?

    26. Cheering Each Other OnSomeone you want to cheer on

      On a day when nothing goes right, what words give you strength?

    27. Making UpA bond you want to mend

      What is usually in the small scenes that bring you back to yourself?

    28. Thanks to SomeoneThe moment you leaned on someone

      Has someone ever given you a moment to catch your breath?

    29. Quiet PrideRising quietly inside

      Is there something you were quietly, privately proud of?

    30. A CommaA breath between sentences

      If you placed a comma somewhere in today, where would it go?

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    Questions for Someone New

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 30 questions

    1. An Unfamiliar DoorAt a door you open for the first time

      When you first open the door to an unfamiliar place, who do you become?

    2. A First DayA day that was the first

      Of all the days you first arrived somewhere, is there one that still stays with you?

    3. The One Who Spoke FirstThe first words offered you

      In a place that was new to you, did someone come and speak to you first?

    4. Settling InAs the strangeness thins

      What do you need before a new place begins to feel easy?

    5. Asking What You Do Not KnowThe feeling before asking

      Is asking about what you do not know easy for you, or does it take you a while?

    6. A Moment AloneWhen everyone feels far

      Have you ever felt as though you were alone in an unfamiliar place?

    7. If You Began AgainIf you opened that door again

      If you went back to your first day somewhere, what would you want to do differently?

    8. The Air on the First DayThe air that hung there

      The day you first stepped in here, what was the air like?

    9. Words Used Only HereSpoken nowhere else

      If there is a word used only here, what would it be?

    10. Hard to NoticeVisible once you know

      Is there something hard to see from outside that makes things easier once you know it?

    11. A Corner You LikeWhere you find yourself leaning

      If there is one corner of this place you like, where is it?

    12. Seen from OutsideWith first-time eyes

      To someone seeing this place for the first time, what would look most surprising?

    13. Here, TodayThe room you are in together

      If you pictured today's gathering as a single scene, what would it look like?

    14. What You Want to KnowWhere the wondering points

      About the person sitting across from you, what would you want to know first?

    15. How You Grow CloseHow the distance closes

      When you grow close to someone, what do you tend to do first?

    16. Something You Keep AtKept beside you for years

      Is there something that looks like nothing to others but that you have held on to for a long time?

    17. The Name You WantThe sound of your own name

      What name would sound most like you?

    18. Often MisreadWhat looks different at first

      Is there something people who have just met you often get wrong?

    19. A Story Saved UpNot told yet

      Is there a story of yours you would tell once things feel easy someday?

    20. One Thing TodayOne thing to add to today

      If you made today a little special, what one thing would do it?

    21. If We Were AnimalsIf you changed shape

      If you pictured everyone here as animals, which one would you be closest to?

    22. A Dish for the First DayIf a gathering had a flavor

      If you turned today's gathering into a dish, what food would it be?

    23. A Silly RuleMade up half in play

      If you made one silly rule to keep for today only, what would it be?

    24. Getting LostWhere the way gets confusing

      If you got lost here, whereabouts do you think it would happen?

    25. Trading PlacesFrom each other's place

      If the two of you traded places for a day, what would you want to try first?

    26. Something to OfferWhat you would put in their hand

      If you offered one thing to someone who has just arrived somewhere new, what would it be?

    27. Words You Want to HearWords you would be glad to hear

      In a new place, what words do you most want to hear?

    28. Something to Do TogetherSomething to try side by side

      If you chose one thing that would be good to try together, what would it be?

    29. Getting AlongWhat keeps it going

      What would help the two of you stay comfortable together for a long time?

    30. A Day of LaughingA day you will laugh together

      If some time from now you are laughing together, what will it be about?

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    Sharing Before You Go

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 39 questions

    1. The First DayWhen you knew nothing yet

      When you first came here, what felt strange to you and no one else?

    2. NicknameThe name you went by

      If you gave this stretch of time a film title, what would suit it?

    3. ObjectSomething you've held onto for years

      What is one object that brings this time back to you?

    4. LaughterA moment you laughed together

      Is there a scene that still makes you smile to yourself when you think of it?

    5. A HabitSo old it goes unnoticed

      Is there a small habit that became second nature without your noticing?

    6. ChangeWhere things changed for you

      In what way is the you of the beginning different from the you of now?

    7. A SceneOne scene that will stay

      What moment would you keep the way you would keep a photograph?

    8. GratitudeWhat you still haven't said

      Is there someone you really want to say thank you to?

    9. A Hand Held OutHelp given without a word

      On a hard day, what was the act that quietly held you up?

    10. DiscoveryWhere you meet something new

      In your time here, was there someone you came to respect?

    11. Giving Yourself CreditWhen you credit yourself

      What would you like to tell yourself you did well?

    12. UnseenKindness that hardly showed

      Was there a kindness that never showed but that you were grateful for?

    13. GiftWhat you want to give

      If you left behind a gift that costs nothing, what would it be?

    14. A Few WordsIf you could leave just one line

      Before you go, what is the one sentence you want to say?

    15. Thanks to SomeoneThe moment you leaned on someone

      Thanks to someone, have you ever become a slightly better person?

    16. LessonsWhat you're taking with you

      What did this stretch of time teach you?

    17. FailureWhat went wrong left behind

      What unexpected gift did something that went badly leave behind for you?

    18. A QuestionGrown from inside

      Is there a question you first began to carry here?

    19. PeopleSomeone who stayed in your heart

      Who did you watch and think, “that is who I want to become”?

    20. A StandardWhat has led you

      What standard for working did this time leave you with?

    21. CourageThe strength to take your next step

      Is there a part of you that has grown a little braver than before?

    22. A LimitWhere you could go no further

      If something showed you your own limit, what was it?

    23. What You Leave BehindWhat you leave along the way

      If you left one small tip for the next person, what would it be?

    24. What Stays AnywayWhat stayed, though not enough

      Even among the things you will miss, what scene remains as something to be thankful for?

    25. More WarmlyIf you could say it again

      Looking back, when do you wish you had spoken more warmly?

    26. What Never Got AcrossWords that landed differently

      If something came across differently than you meant it, how do you hope it will be remembered?

    27. WeightWhat weighs on your heart

      What thought do you not need to carry into the journey ahead?

    28. BoundariesThe line you don't want crossed

      In the journey ahead, what attitude do you want to hold more clearly?

    29. Letting GoWhat you're ready to let go of

      What is it that you can set down now?

    30. A RitualA small way of closing

      If you made one small ritual to close this chapter, what would it be?

    31. ForgivenessSomething you want to release

      Is there a part of yourself you would like to forgive?

    32. What’s NextWhat comes next for you

      In the journey ahead, what do you want to restore first?

    33. HopeWhat you are hoping for

      After you walk out of here, which version of yourself do you hope to meet?

    34. Something to Grow Used ToTo learn on the next road

      In the journey ahead, what new thing do you want to grow used to?

    35. A BlankSpace about to open

      In the blank about to open up, what would you like to fill in?

    36. Staying ConnectedWhat holds across distance

      The ties you want to keep — in what way would you like to keep them?

    37. Good WishesWords for the road ahead

      What good words would you like to offer each other for the season ahead?

    38. LightnessWhere you let go

      Once your heart feels a little lighter, what do you want to do first?

    39. The Last WordA word before turning away

      Before you step out the door, what short farewell would you give yourself?

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    Questions for Two Who Have Just Met

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 30 questions

    1. TodayWithin your day today

      Before you came here, what were you doing?

    2. First ImpressionsThe first feeling you get

      First impressions of people — do you usually get them right?

    3. NameA name you want to call

      Is there a story behind your name?

    4. MorningWhere your day begins

      This morning, the moment you opened your eyes, what did you do first?

    5. Your BagAlways carried

      Is there something always tucked inside your bag?

    6. Your Café OrderThe one you keep ordering

      Is there something you always order when you go to a café?

    7. WeekendA day with nothing in it

      On a weekend with no plans, what do you usually do?

    8. A PathSteps that keep returning

      Is there a path your feet often take you down?

    9. SongA song you've hummed for years

      Is there a song you keep coming back to lately?

    10. A FilmA story that fits in one film

      Is there a film you have watched more than twice?

    11. DinnerAfter the sun goes down

      What are you craving most for dinner tonight?

    12. Your PalateYour leanings at the table

      Is there something you cannot eat, or choose not to?

    13. PraiseSomething good you want to point out

      Is there something people tell you you are good at?

    14. Still ClumsyDone without getting better

      Is there something you are still clumsy at but keep doing anyway?

    15. LaughterA moment you laughed together

      What made you laugh the hardest lately?

    16. Easily HurtWhen you bruise easily

      What is it that most easily hurts your feelings?

    17. RestHow you get your energy back

      When you are worn out, what brings your strength back?

    18. That PlacePut off until someday

      Is there a place you would like to go back to someday?

    19. PlayA while in childhood

      Was there a game you played often as a child?

    20. HomeThe place you come home to

      Is there a word or a habit that only your household uses?

    21. FriendsAmong each other's people

      When you think of an old friend, what kind of person are they?

    22. LessonsWhat you're taking with you

      Is there something new you have been wanting to learn?

    23. Your WalletWhat you never mind paying for

      Is there something you never begrudge the money for?

    24. AloneTime you enjoy on your own

      How do you usually spend your time alone?

    25. Keeping in TouchIn between messages

      Do you tend to message back and forth often?

    26. PaceYour pace these days

      Does it take you time to grow close to someone?

    27. CuriosityA question surfacing now

      Shall we ask the one thing you are most curious about right now?

    28. AlikeWhere you overlap

      Was there anything today that made you feel the two of you are alike?

    29. What’s NextWhat comes next for you

      Is there something you would like to do together next time?

    30. Seeing Someone OffBeside someone who left before you

      When you part, how do you usually say goodbye?

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    Questions for a Hundred Days Together

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 30 questions

    1. FlutterWhat caught your eye later

      Is there something you did not notice at first that now looks endearing to you?

    2. First ImpressionFacing your earlier self

      If the you of now could say one thing to the you of back then, what would it be?

    3. ExpressionWhat your face says first

      What does your face look like when it shows that you like someone?

    4. PraiseSomething good you want to point out

      What is the compliment that makes a whole day feel all right again?

    5. TasteA taste your tongue remembers

      If there is a color or a scent that brings you to mind, what is it?

    6. FoodWhat you want to taste again

      If you made a dish that belonged only to you two, what would you name it?

    7. PlacesWhere your feet want to linger

      What small place suits the two of you well?

    8. MusicWhen you let the music carry you

      If you laid background music under the two of you, what mood should it have?

    9. GiftWhat you want to give

      Not something expensive — what gift would keep you smiling for a long time?

    10. A HabitSo old it goes unnoticed

      Is there an endearing habit you repeat without noticing?

    11. NicknameThe name you went by

      If you have secretly given each other nicknames, shall we reveal them?

    12. ImaginingA scene you picture

      If the two of you opened a small shop for one day, what would you sell?

    13. A TalentA knack only you know

      What small, unimpressive talent of yours actually turns out to be useful?

    14. AnimalsSeeing yourself in another shape

      If you pictured the two of you today as two animals, what pairing would it be?

    15. A FilmA story that fits in one film

      If your time together were a film trailer, what would the first scene be?

    16. A ButtonThe moment it shifts

      If you had a button that lifted your mood whenever someone pressed it, where would it be?

    17. Feeling at EaseWhen your guard comes down

      When is the moment you feel at ease beside the other person?

    18. ToneThe warmth in how it is said

      When they come toward you, what tone of voice feels the most comfortable?

    19. NameA name you want to call

      Of the names you call each other, which one do you like best?

    20. A DayWhat filled your day

      At what moment today did you find yourself thinking of the other person?

    21. CourageThe strength to take your next step

      Before you could say that you liked them, what was the hardest part?

    22. Keeping in TouchIn between messages

      The way the two of you message now — is it comfortable for both of you?

    23. ClassroomA classroom from back then

      If the two of you had been classmates, what would you have been to each other?

    24. The First ConversationThe first words exchanged

      Of the first things the two of you talked about, is there something that still stays with you?

    25. A Feeling Just BegunA feeling only just here

      In this feeling that has only just begun, what is the strangest and best part?

    26. Still WonderingNever said out loud

      Of the things you have not yet asked the other person, which are you most curious about?

    27. A Hundred DaysThe days that got you here

      If today were the hundredth day, what would you most want to say?

    28. DifferencesWhere you are not alike

      Among the ways the two of you differ, is there one that feels fun?

    29. IntroducingHow you come across to others

      If you introduced the other person to a friend, what would your first words be?

    30. Still NervousNot settled yet

      Is there still a moment when you feel a little nervous in front of them?

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    Questions for Two Who Have Grown Familiar

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 30 questions

    1. Walking Side by SideA pace found together

      When you walk side by side, do your steps fall in together?

    2. Resting RhythmHow you loosen beside each other

      What lets the two of you rest easily even while you are together?

    3. JokingA joke only you two get

      What strange joke has grown up between you?

    4. The Next MealThe next time you sit down

      Is there something you want to eat together the next time you meet?

    5. What You Really MeanWhat passed only inside

      When was a moment you were grateful for but have not said so yet?

    6. Hurt FeelingsThe mark left on your heart

      If something stung a little and you let it pass, how would you want to say it now?

    7. HopeWhat you are hoping for

      What words would you like to hear more often from now on?

    8. PromisesWhat you've pledged to each other

      What is one small promise you would like to keep between you?

    9. One PhotographOne you have kept

      Is there one photo in your album you would like to show them?

    10. Words Back and ForthA day's worth of words

      Do many words pass between you in a day, or only a few?

    11. What Got EasierEasier than it was

      Is there something you could not do at first that comes easily now?

    12. Between RepliesWhile the waiting runs

      While a reply is slow in coming, how do you usually wait?

    13. What You Call Each OtherThe name your mouth knows

      What do the two of you call each other these days?

    14. Busy DaysWhen meetings thin out

      When you are both busy and rarely meet, what happens inside you?

    15. Family TalkWhere each of you grew up

      How far have the two of you gone in sharing about your families?

    16. The First BumpThe day you first missed each other

      The first day your hearts were out of step, how did you work it out?

    17. SeasonsA season that returns to you

      Of the seasons you have passed through together, which was the best?

    18. Bringing It UpWhen words land well

      When is a good time to bring up something delicate?

    19. A Habit Found OutNo longer hidden

      Is there a habit of yours that got found out once the two of you grew familiar?

    20. RequestWords you want to share early

      Is asking the other person for something easy for you?

    21. ScreensClose but far

      When you are together but each looking at a screen, what happens inside you?

    22. FriendsAmong each other's people

      How is it for you when you meet each other's friends?

    23. A Tired DayYou with nothing left

      On a deeply tired day, what do you become in front of them?

    24. A Hard DayHow you stay near

      When the other person looks to be struggling, what do you usually do?

    25. Rubbing OffA taste that crossed over

      Of the things you used to like, is there one they came to like as well?

    26. Their DayHours you do not see

      If there is a stretch of their day you do not know well, around when would it be?

    27. Hungry DaysWhen your patience thins

      When you are hungry or short on sleep, what kind of person do you become?

    28. TravelSomewhere you want to leave for

      If the two of you could go anywhere at all, where would you want to go?

    29. A SecretStill unsaid

      Is there a story you have told to them and no one else?

    30. Growing AlikeTraces soaked in from each other

      Is there a turn of speech or a gesture that has passed between you?

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    Questions for a Year Together

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 39 questions

    1. MemoriesA scene that stays with you

      What very small scene between you has stayed the longest?

    2. Special DaysA day you mark as special

      If you made an anniversary tradition of your own, what would be good?

    3. The YearA day worth opening again

      Of this past year, which day would you take out and look at again?

    4. ChangeWhere things changed for you

      Since the two of you met, what has changed in you?

    5. PhotosA moment you captured

      Of the photos the two of you have taken together, which one do you love most?

    6. Rough PatchWhat you've made it through together

      When in this past year were you most shaken?

    7. GratitudeWhat you still haven't said

      Of everything the other person did this year, what were you most grateful for?

    8. The Year AheadHopes set on the days ahead

      If you wished for one thing in the year ahead, what would it be?

    9. As You See ItThe two of you from inside

      As the two of you see it, what have you become to each other?

    10. For a Long TimeWhat you want left as it is

      What small thing between you do you hope lasts a long time?

    11. A Year AgoThe now you could not see then

      Could the you of a year ago have imagined the two of you as you are now?

    12. Naming ItA name for the days behind you

      If you gave your past year together a name, what would you call it?

    13. LessonsWhat you're taking with you

      If there is something you learned from this person, what is it?

    14. Days ApartWhile you were far apart

      Were there days the two of you had to be far apart?

    15. An Ordinary DayA day when nothing happened

      Was there a day when nothing happened that turned out unusually good?

    16. By Your SideSomeone close to you

      On a day you had no strength left, what did the other person do beside you?

    17. Waiting for YouTime given without hurrying

      Was there something the other person waited on until you were ready?

    18. Every DaySo constant you missed it

      Of the things they do every day, is there one you have taken for granted?

    19. Someone Who HelpedThe one who stayed without a word

      Who helped the two of you this past year without ever saying a word about it?

    20. A Few WordsIf you could leave just one line

      Is there one thing the other person said this year that stayed with you a long time?

    21. SorryWords that stopped at your lips

      Is there something you have not yet been able to say sorry for?

    22. What You Brought UpBarely got out

      What was the hardest thing to bring up this past year?

    23. Not YetStill put off

      Even after a year, is there something you still have not talked about?

    24. A NoteA short opening line

      If you wrote the other person a short note today, how would you begin?

    25. Somewhere Along the WayGrown without anyone deciding

      Is there a habit that grew between you somewhere along the way?

    26. Your Own WayA way only you two know

      If there is a way that belongs to you two and to no one else, what is it?

    27. Your StrengthWhat you have to give

      In this bond, what is it that you are able to give more of?

    28. A Regular HauntA place you keep going back to

      Over the year, is there a place that became a regular for you two?

    29. Inner FeelingsSeen from the inside

      What feeling between you did you come to know anew over this past year?

    30. The Funniest DayA day full of laughing

      When was the funniest day of this past year?

    31. ColorThe color you carry now

      If you painted this past year a color, what color would it be?

    32. A MealWhat was on the table that day

      Of the meals you have shared, is there one that stands out in your memory?

    33. A Surprising MomentOutside what you expected

      As you came to know each other, when was the moment that surprised you most?

    34. The First ThreeIf you named three

      Of the things you did together for the first time, what are the three you remember best?

    35. Somewhere to GoNot been there yet

      Of the places you have only seen in photos, is there one you want to go to together?

    36. A Small PromiseSettled with yourself

      Is there a small promise you quietly want to keep between you?

    37. DreamThe picture you hold in your heart

      In your time together, have you come to know each other's dreams?

    38. When Someone Is UnwellWarmth on a sick day

      On days one of you was unwell, what care do you remember most?

    39. WorryWhat weighs on your mind

      Is there something small in your relationship that worries you?

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    Talking Again After an Argument

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 39 questions

    1. Words SwallowedWords that stayed inside

      What words rose as far as your throat and then went back down again?

    2. What Was UnderneathUnderneath what shows

      Underneath the angry face, what feeling might have been there?

    3. What You Hoped ForPictured on your own

      Is there something you let pass, assuming it would be understood without being said?

    4. A Line of Your OwnA line drawn quietly

      Even between people who love each other, what line of yours would you want kept?

    5. Something You WonderA question still left

      Do you want to ask how they were feeling at that moment?

    6. Something OlderBegun long before

      Might there be a feeling that was inside you long before any of this happened?

    7. LetterWords you want to write down

      If you wrote how you feel on a note, what would the first line say?

    8. The Shape You TakeWho shows up then

      When your feelings fall out of step, what do you usually become?

    9. NoticingBefore the words land

      When you sense your words might wound them, what is it that tells you?

    10. BodySignals your body sends

      When anger comes, where in your body does something change first?

    11. Your GuardThe moment you harden

      When you feel you are about to be hurt, what do you wrap around yourself?

    12. When You Are AloneThoughts after it goes quiet

      When you are left alone after arguing, what circles around in your head?

    13. Growing UpWhat you watched growing up

      How to act when you are angry — who did you learn that from?

    14. SettlingWhile it settles slowly

      Until a heated heart settles again, what do you need?

    15. SorryWords that stopped at your lips

      When you say that you are sorry, what else do you want to say along with it?

    16. Going FirstOne step put forward

      Is reaching out first easy for you, or does it take you a while?

    17. The Moment It LoosensWhere it turned

      When you recall the moment a hardened heart began to loosen, what do you see?

    18. ListeningUntil it reaches you

      For their words to actually reach you, what needs to be there in you?

    19. Coming to Meet YouA feeling coming across

      When they come toward you first, how do you recognize it?

    20. Letting It PassSomething set down

      Have you ever set down something that had been caught in your heart?

    21. Ending WellThe shape of an ending

      For a talk to feel well ended, what needs to remain?

    22. The Feeling I MissedWhat you did not notice then

      Might there have been something they felt back then that you never noticed?

    23. A Late DiscoveryVisible only afterward

      Of the things they have been doing quietly, what has only now come into view?

    24. Clumsy FeelingsA time hard on you both

      Could that moment have been difficult for them as well?

    25. GratitudeWhat you still haven't said

      Even in the middle of arguing, was there something you were grateful for?

    26. Standing Up for YouThe day they stood by you

      Does an image come to mind of them standing up for you in front of others?

    27. In Their VoiceSaid from their side

      If you stood where they stood and spoke what they felt then, what would come out?

    28. A Signal for Making UpA sign only you two know

      If you made one signal of your own for making up, what would be good?

    29. LaughterA moment you laughed together

      Have you ever ended up laughing even while you were still angry?

    30. SnackWhat you keep reaching for

      When your feelings are hurt, what small thing soothes you?

    31. AnimalsSeeing yourself in another shape

      When your feelings fall out of step, if you pictured the two of you as animals, what would it look like?

    32. An Old ArgumentAfter enough time

      Is there a past argument you can now talk about with a laugh?

    33. Alike After AllWhat each reflects of the other

      Once you had clashed, did you find there were ways the two of you are alike?

    34. One ThingIf you picked just one

      When the next disagreement comes, what would you like to try differently?

    35. A Repeating PatternThe way it comes around

      Every time you argue, do you see something in yourself that comes around again?

    36. LessonsWhat you're taking with you

      Coming through this, what did you learn from yourself?

    37. PromisesWhat you've pledged to each other

      At the end of today's talk, if you set one promise to keep with yourself, what would it be?

    38. What Worked BeforeIt worked once before

      If something helped the two of you the last time, what was it?

    39. Even SoWhat does not give way

      Even after clashing like this, what is it that brings the two of you back to sit down together again?

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    What If We Were Married?

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 39 questions

    1. WorryWhat weighs on your mind

      When you think of becoming spouses, what worries you most?

    2. TimeIf you don't have enough time

      Is there time of your own you would want kept even after you are married?

    3. MoneyWhat you find hard to bring up

      When you talk about money, where are you the most careful?

    4. HouseworkComing round every day

      Which household tasks would you take on, and which would you rather not?

    5. Your Own StandardWhat you hold to when choosing

      Facing an important choice, is there a standard you want to keep?

    6. ChildrenFor someone you're watching grow

      Have the two of you ever talked about having children?

    7. Being Cared ForA way of staying near

      When you are unwell, what kind of care makes you feel loved?

    8. Your ResolveWhen you began to lean

      Was there a moment you felt it would be all right to marry this person?

    9. RolesThe part each of you plays

      Is there a name of your own you would not want to lose even after marrying?

    10. FriendsAmong each other's people

      Is there someone you want to keep seeing even after marrying?

    11. FearWhat you find hard to say

      Is there a difficulty of yours you would want to mention beforehand?

    12. What Lies AheadThe two of you far ahead

      If you picture the two of you ten years on, what scene do you see?

    13. HomeThe place you come home to

      When you picture the home you would live in, what do you see first?

    14. Putting It OffPushed to later

      With marriage ahead of you, is there something holding your feet in place?

    15. The EldersWhat rises before your elders

      When you bring up marriage with your elders, what worries you?

    16. A Life on Your OwnDays lived on your own

      Have you ever pictured a life without marrying?

    17. Work and LifeWork and the hours outside it

      How will the two of you work out where work belongs and where life does?

    18. Love Before ThisWhat the passed time left

      If there is anything you learned from love before this, is there something you would do differently now?

    19. Body and HeartSomething to say beforehand

      Is there something about your body or your heart you would want to mention beforehand?

    20. Something SteadyWhat seems unshakable

      What is it about this person that sets your mind at rest?

    21. MarriageStaking a whole life

      When you hear the word marriage, what scene comes to mind?

    22. MealsA place where you sit together

      What does the table you would sit at as a married couple look like?

    23. A HabitSo old it goes unnoticed

      Might there be a habit of yours that would surprise them once you are married?

    24. RulesA promise just between you

      If the two of you made a home together, what rules would you want in it?

    25. A Day OffA day with your hands down

      On a day off, what do you most want to do first?

    26. What You Grew Up SeeingAmong the things you grew up seeing

      Of how the elders around you ran a household, is there something you would want to take after?

    27. Growing OldAfter the years have gone

      Together until your hair turns grey — how does that phrase make you feel?

    28. What Holds You UpWhat you lean on when it is hard

      When something hard comes along, what would you find yourself leaning on?

    29. Caring for FamilyWhen someone becomes yours to care for

      If you came to care for each other's families, how would you feel about it?

    30. Spending and SavingHow you save and spend

      Are you more for the joy of spending, or the comfort of putting something aside?

    31. DreamThe picture you hold in your heart

      To help the other person with their dream, what could you do?

    32. A Life for TwoA future drawn for two

      Have you ever pictured a life for the two of you without children?

    33. DifferencesWhere you are not alike

      In what respect are the two of you most different from each other?

    34. Something to LearnWhat makes you want to take after them

      Is there something you would like to learn from this person?

    35. LaughterA moment you laughed together

      When do the two of you usually laugh the hardest?

    36. UnguardedNothing covered

      Have you shown this person a side of yourself that others rarely get to see?

    37. When Talk FlowsHow talk runs between you

      At what time, or in what place, does talk between you flow most easily?

    38. Deciding TogetherSettled together

      When something big has to be settled, how would the two of you want to settle it?

    39. A Small LifeA small breathing thing beside you

      Is there a life you would want to look after together once you are married?

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    With the Wedding Ahead

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 39 questions

    1. FamilyA story that takes you back to your roots

      Is there a picture of family you have dreamed of?

    2. PromisesWhat you've pledged to each other

      Is there a promise you want to keep in married life rather than at the wedding itself?

    3. The ReasonThe heart on the other side

      What might be the other person's reason for marrying you?

    4. Good WishesWords for the road ahead

      If you wished the two of you well for what lies ahead, what words would you choose?

    5. WaitingWhat hasn't reached you yet

      Which moment of the wedding are you looking forward to most?

    6. By Your SideSomeone close to you

      Who is the person you would want beside you throughout the ceremony?

    7. PreparingWhile you are getting ready

      When you clash while preparing, how do the two of you work it out?

    8. The Two FamiliesBetween two families

      When the elders' wishes differ from your own, what would you want to talk through together?

    9. A VowMeant to be kept long

      What is the one thing you want to uphold for your partner for a lifetime?

    10. MorningWhere your day begins

      The morning after the ceremony, what kind of day would you want it to be?

    11. The CostStanding in front of numbers

      In all the talk about money, is there something you have not said yet?

    12. HeartWhere your heart lingers

      As the day draws nearer, which grows more — the flutter of it, or the weight of it?

    13. After a Long TimeSomeone who drifted away

      Among the people you have not seen in a long time, is there someone you really want to invite?

    14. What You WearHow you decide what to wear

      When you choose what to wear, what matters most to you?

    15. MusicWhen you let the music carry you

      Is there a song you would want playing at the ceremony?

    16. FoodWhat you want to taste again

      Is there a dish you really want to serve the people who come?

    17. SeasonsA season that returns to you

      If you could choose the weather, on what kind of day would you marry?

    18. KeepingTo keep and look at for years

      Of the things from the wedding, is there one you will keep close for a long time?

    19. PhotosA moment you captured

      If only one photograph remained, what scene would you want it to be?

    20. LetterWords you want to write down

      If you wrote a letter to your elders, what would the first line be?

    21. FriendsAmong each other's people

      How might your friendships change once you are married?

    22. Your SharePiling up unmentioned

      What have you been quietly taking care of lately?

    23. Just the Two of YouWhen only the two remain

      Has time for just the two of you been crowded out by the preparations?

    24. Heavy DaysA day you can see the bottom

      On a day when your heart feels heavy, what is it that you need?

    25. BodySignals your body sends

      Since the preparations got busy, has your body been sending you any signals?

    26. Putting It OffPushed to later

      With your mind on the preparations, is there something you have put off?

    27. CareLeft untouched on purpose

      Of the things the other person holds dear, is there one you want to protect?

    28. Setting AsideFolded away this time

      Is there something you wanted but have set aside this time?

    29. Where You LookWhich way you look first

      What looks good to others, or what is truly yours — which do you look at first?

    30. Your Own WayA way only you two know

      If just one thing were done in your own way, what would you want it to be?

    31. If It Goes WrongWhere it goes slightly off

      If one thing went off course, what could you laugh away?

    32. Different WaysHousehold by household

      Of the ways of the two families, is there something unfamiliar to you?

    33. The Night BeforeBefore the light goes out

      The night before the ceremony, what will you be doing?

    34. At the DoorJust before stepping in

      The moment you stand at the door of the hall, what will rise up in you?

    35. The InvitationWords written and sent

      If you added one line to the invitation, what would you write?

    36. New NamesNewly called something else

      The new terms you will be called after marrying — how will they sound to you?

    37. TravelSomewhere you want to leave for

      Once you have set off on the trip, what do you most want to do?

    38. HouseholdThe things that keep a day running

      What is the first thing you want to bring into your new household?

    39. EncouragementWords you want to hear yourself

      If you said one thing to the you who has been working so hard on all this, what would it be?

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    Before Taaruf: Looking at Your Readiness for Marriage

    A list for anyone preparing a conversation.

    20 of 39 questions

    1. Right NowThis very moment you're in

      If someone asked why you want to marry now, what would you say out loud?

    2. WindWhere your heart is leading you

      What is it that you still hope marriage will put right?

    3. AloneTime you enjoy on your own

      What do your prayers look like when you are by yourself?

    4. Your StrengthWhat you have to give

      Of the strengths Allah has given you, which could you bring to a marriage?

    5. A Hard WeekWhile you get through it

      In a week when nothing goes right, how do your prayers change?

    6. As You AreWithout adding anything more

      If what you have now stayed exactly as it is, could you still say you are ready?

    7. WaitingWhat hasn't reached you yet

      What did you wait a long time for after praying for it?

    8. GrowthWhat you're growing little by little

      A year from now, where do you hope your faith will be?

    9. The FamiliarNever asked because it was familiar

      Which way of practising your faith feels obvious to you simply because that is how you were taught?

    10. TirednessYou when you are worn out

      At home, who sees your tired face most often?

    11. Daily LifeYou seen up close

      If the people you live with described what it is like to live with you, what would they say?

    12. Unthanked WorkDone without complaint

      Of the things at home that nobody is thanked for, which ones do you do?

    13. A StrangerBefore someone passing by

      How do you speak to a stranger you will almost certainly never meet again?

    14. ApologyThe words you need to offer

      When you have been in the wrong, how do you apologise?

    15. ArgumentsAfter the voices die down

      In the home you grew up in, how did arguments end?

    16. PromisesWhat you've pledged to each other

      What is the most recent small thing you said you would do and actually did?

    17. What You Will Not Give UpWhat you will not trade

      What are three things you would not let go of, not even for marriage?

    18. PracticeWhat you are learning now

      The person you want to be in marriage — where are you practising that now?

    19. ForgivenessSomething you want to release

      When did you let something go even though you had every right to be angry?

    20. AngerWhere it goes

      When there is no one to blame, where does your anger go?

    21. The First Ten MinutesWhat comes out first

      In the first ten minutes after being hurt, what kind of person do you become?

    22. ComfortWords you want close by

      When you are upset, do you want advice, or do you simply want to be heard?

    23. A WoundThe mark an old thing left

      Of things that are long past, is there one that still surfaces now and then?

    24. DinnerAfter the sun goes down

      Does an evening on your own feel long to you, or short?

    25. ProofWhat shows before words

      What do you think marrying would prove about you?

    26. What You CarryWhat you are carrying now

      As you think about marriage, which financial burden of yours is worth looking at in advance?

    27. EnoughWhen you stop wanting more

      What does the feeling of enough look like for you?

    28. ProvidingMore than words can hold

      Apart from money, what does providing mean to you?

    29. What They May ExpectKnown only by assumption

      About what a spouse may expect of you, what do you actually know rather than assume?

    30. HouseholdThe things that keep a day running

      What is one household task your hands have grown used to lately?

    31. Sharing the LoadA share that shifted without saying

      Of the work of a home, which part do you quietly hope someone else will take on?

    32. Favorite SpotWhere you stand

      In the home where you live now, where is your place?

    33. Where You TurnThe person you go to first

      If trouble came up in a marriage, who would you go to first?

    34. What You Grew Up SeeingAmong the things you grew up seeing

      Of the marriages you saw growing up, what would you want in your own?

    35. HopeWhat you are hoping for

      Whose expectations are you matching when you think about marriage?

    36. PreparingWhile you are getting ready

      Are you preparing for a wedding, or preparing for a marriage?

    37. Staying With ItUnbroken for a long time

      What habit or commitment have you kept up the longest?

    38. MaghribWhoever is beside you then

      On an ordinary evening five years from now, after Maghrib has passed, who is in that room?

    39. WorryWhat weighs on your mind

      What worry about marriage do you never say out loud?

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