Getting to Know Each Other
DecksGetting to Know Each Other · 30 cards
For this deck
Question cards for getting to know each other
Thirty question cards that ask who the person sitting across from you really is.
They ask not what you're good at, but what you've wondered about for a long time, and what you say first on a day when things fall apart.
Easy to ask, but the answers come out differently for everyone.
Three steps
- Choose a deck
- Draw a card
- Take turns answering
When · with whom
2 playersWorkMeeting someoneCoworkers
Meet each other halfway
- Hear it allHear the whole answer before you reflect
- Take your timeIf they pause, give them a moment
- Let it beYou don't need to correct them
- Choose freelyFeel free to skip any card
- Keep balanceBalance talking and listening
- Keep it hereLet what you share here stay here
A list for anyone preparing a conversation.
- A Long LookWhat your eyes keep returning to
- The Question That Moved YouWhen curiosity leads
- What Fun IsYou never know where it comes from
- Losing Track of TimeWhen you sink all the way in
- An Unguarded LaughLaughter that comes on its own
- A Day Gone WrongWhen nothing goes to plan
- What Stays AnywayWhat stayed, though not enough
- The Same Me EverywhereWhen outside and inside match
- A Small Rule of MineKept quietly all along
- The Moment You Had to SpeakHarder than staying quiet
- What You Cannot Let GoWhat you would carry to the end
- DirectionWhere your feet are pointed
- Being YourselfThe way that suits you
- Year After YearWhat never broke off
- Even If No One AsksWhat you do on your own
- What You Learned from YourselfWhat you left yourself
- What Made You StrongerStrength that came afterward
- Better Than You KnewOnly clear later
- What You Did ThenOn the day it shook hardest
- Building It BackWhere it began again
- Where Learning Comes FromWhat made you grow
- AskingSaying you do not know
- A Changed MindWhen it starts looking different
- Beyond Your RolePast what you were given
- A Good ColleagueThinking of the desk beside you
- What You Were GivenThe kindness you were shown
- What Kind of ColleagueWho you are beside others
- Working TogetherHow the work changed shape
- Your PartWhat only you can do
- ProofWhat shows before words
FAQ
- Is it free? Do you need an account?
- Yes, everything is free. You don't need to sign up or log in. This site may show ads, though.
- Your conversations aren't saved on the server. The nickname you enter also stays only in this browser.
- How many cards are there? What kinds of cards can you find?
- There are 771 cards across 23 decks. They range from questions for looking back on your own to questions to share with family, partners, friends and colleagues.
- Each deck has its own feel. If you'd like to start light, open Today's Question first.
- Who is it best for—family, a partner, or friends?
- Each deck shows which relationship it suits. With Family is great for family, Deeper Together for a partner, and Switching Seats for friends.
- Either-Or Questions is an easy choice when you're meeting for the first time. If you're not sure what to pick, filter by relationship or situation at the top.
- How is this different from buying physical talk cards?
- You don't need to buy anything or install an app. Just open a link and start right away.
- There are no cards to lose or carry around. You won't get the feel of paper, though—that's where physical cards shine.
- How many people do you need? Can you use it alone?
- It's easiest with two people, but a bigger group works well too. Enter the number of people, and you'll see whose turn it is.
- You can flip through the cards on your own too. Even if you don't answer out loud, the questions stay with you.
- Is it available in languages other than Korean?
- Only Korean is available right now. Other languages are on the way.
- You can see the languages coming next in the language list in the footer.
- Can you use it for interviews or group orientations?
- Yes. For a first conversation with someone new, a group orientation, or an icebreaker, 'Today's Question' and 'Either-Or Questions' work especially well. There are no right answers, so nobody needs to prepare in advance.
- It can also help you prepare for an interview. Use 'Today's Question' to reflect on who you are these days, then explain your choices in 'Either-Or Questions' to make introducing yourself feel much easier.
- Cards made especially for interview questions are in the works. You'll see an announcement when they're ready.
Getting to Know Each Other · workplace-know-each-other
Question cards for getting to know each other
Thirty question cards that ask who the person sitting across from you really is.
They ask not what you're good at, but what you've wondered about for a long time, and what you say first on a day when things fall apart.
Easy to ask, but the answers come out differently for everyone.