Switch Seats
DecksSwitch Seats · 30 cards
For this deck
It's okay to be wrong. Getting it right isn't the point.
Be the other person, and answer in their place
Thirty cards where you pretend you're sitting in the other person's seat and answer as if you were them.
They ask what makes that person smile these days, and what they're quietly working hard at.
It isn't a guessing game. These cards help you notice the effort you hadn't seen before.
Three steps
- Choose a deck
- Draw a card
- Take turns answering
When · with whom
2 playersFriendsGatheringsWorkLoveMarriage
Meet each other halfway
- Hear it allHear the whole answer before you reflect
- Take your timeIf they pause, give them a moment
- Let it beYou don't need to correct them
- Choose freelyFeel free to skip any card
- Keep balanceBalance talking and listening
- Keep it hereLet what you share here stay here
A list for anyone preparing a conversation.
- JoyA moment that lights you up
- WearinessWhat rests on your shoulders
- HopesWhen you voice what you hope for
- WorryWhat weighs on your mind
- ComfortWords you want close by
- PrideSomething you don't have to hide
- RestHow you get your energy back
- ChildhoodWho you were back then
- DreamThe picture you hold in your heart
- Hurt FeelingsThe mark left on your heart
- GratitudeWhat you still haven't said
- PlacesWhere your feet want to linger
- A DayWhat filled your day
- A Few WordsIf you could leave just one line
- CourageThe strength to take your next step
- By Your SideSomeone close to you
- ChangeWhere things changed for you
- TomorrowFor the days still ahead of you
- HabitSomething you do without noticing
- Inside JokeThe lighthearted words you share
- SnackWhat you keep reaching for
- CatchphrasesWhat's behind the words you often use
- Missing SomeoneWhat keeps coming back to you
- Being Hard on YourselfWhere you're hardest on yourself
- MisunderstandingsWhere you got your wires crossed
- PraiseSomething good you want to point out
- PaceYour pace these days
- HelpThe hand you can offer
- HobbiesWhat you make time for
- The FutureHow you see yourself far from now
FAQ
- Is it free? Do you need an account?
- Yes, everything is free. You don't need to sign up or log in. This site may show ads, though.
- Your conversations aren't saved on the server. The nickname you enter also stays only in this browser.
- How many cards are there? What kinds of cards can you find?
- There are 771 cards across 23 decks. They range from questions for looking back on your own to questions to share with family, partners, friends and colleagues.
- Each deck has its own feel. If you'd like to start light, open Today's Question first.
- Who is it best for—family, a partner, or friends?
- Each deck shows which relationship it suits. With Family is great for family, Deeper Together for a partner, and Switching Seats for friends.
- Either-Or Questions is an easy choice when you're meeting for the first time. If you're not sure what to pick, filter by relationship or situation at the top.
- How is this different from buying physical talk cards?
- You don't need to buy anything or install an app. Just open a link and start right away.
- There are no cards to lose or carry around. You won't get the feel of paper, though—that's where physical cards shine.
- How many people do you need? Can you use it alone?
- It's easiest with two people, but a bigger group works well too. Enter the number of people, and you'll see whose turn it is.
- You can flip through the cards on your own too. Even if you don't answer out loud, the questions stay with you.
- Is it available in languages other than Korean?
- Only Korean is available right now. Other languages are on the way.
- You can see the languages coming next in the language list in the footer.
- Can you use it for interviews or group orientations?
- Yes. For a first conversation with someone new, a group orientation, or an icebreaker, 'Today's Question' and 'Either-Or Questions' work especially well. There are no right answers, so nobody needs to prepare in advance.
- It can also help you prepare for an interview. Use 'Today's Question' to reflect on who you are these days, then explain your choices in 'Either-Or Questions' to make introducing yourself feel much easier.
- Cards made especially for interview questions are in the works. You'll see an announcement when they're ready.
Switch Seats · swap
Be the other person, and answer in their place
Thirty cards where you pretend you're sitting in the other person's seat and answer as if you were them.
They ask what makes that person smile these days, and what they're quietly working hard at.
It isn't a guessing game. These cards help you notice the effort you hadn't seen before.