Questions for Someone New
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Team-building questions to open up with a newcomer
Team-building question cards that slowly close the distance between a newcomer and an unfamiliar team.
They hold the questions the early days call for: an unfamiliar door, a first word, how to ask for help.
They help you hold off on judging each other too quickly and settle into the room slowly.
Three steps
- 1Choose a deck
- 2Draw a card
- 3Take turns answering
When · with whom
2+ playersWorkNew PeopleMeeting someoneCoworkers
Meet each other halfway
- Hear it allHear the whole answer before you reflect
- Take your timeIf they pause, give them a moment
- Let it beYou don't need to correct them
- Choose freelyFeel free to skip any card
- Keep balanceBalance talking and listening
- Keep it hereLet what you share here stay here
A list for anyone preparing a conversation.
- An Unfamiliar DoorAt a door you open for the first time
- A First DayA day that was the first
- The One Who Spoke FirstThe first words offered you
- Settling InAs the strangeness thins
- Asking What You Do Not KnowThe feeling before asking
- A Moment AloneWhen everyone feels far
- If You Began AgainIf you opened that door again
- The Air on the First DayThe air that hung there
- Words Used Only HereSpoken nowhere else
- Hard to NoticeVisible once you know
- A Corner You LikeWhere you find yourself leaning
- Seen from OutsideWith first-time eyes
- Here, TodayThe room you are in together
- What You Want to KnowWhere the wondering points
- How You Grow CloseHow the distance closes
- Something You Keep AtKept beside you for years
- The Name You WantThe sound of your own name
- Often MisreadWhat looks different at first
- A Story Saved UpNot told yet
- One Thing TodayOne thing to add to today
- If We Were AnimalsIf you changed shape
- A Dish for the First DayIf a gathering had a flavor
- A Silly RuleMade up half in play
- Getting LostWhere the way gets confusing
- Trading PlacesFrom each other's place
- Something to OfferWhat you would put in their hand
- Words You Want to HearWords you would be glad to hear
- Something to Do TogetherSomething to try side by side
- Getting AlongWhat keeps it going
- A Day of LaughingA day you will laugh together
Decks
- Either-Or QuestionsTwo paths, no right answer. Which side am I on?Thirty-nine cards that lay out two paths with no right answer and get everyone talking about which side they stand on. Since both sides are right, like security and adventure, or honesty and consideration, there's no winning or losing. They're written to make it a time for hearing why someone chose, more than which side they chose.
- Getting to Know Each OtherQuestion cards for getting to know each otherThirty question cards that ask who the person sitting across from you really is. They ask not what you're good at, but what you've wondered about for a long time, and what you say first on a day when things fall apart. Easy to ask, but the answers come out differently for everyone.
- Questions for a First GatheringIcebreaker questions to open a first-time gatheringIcebreaker question cards that ease the awkwardness of a group meeting for the first time. A mix of questions about your name, how you feel today, and the pace of an unfamiliar room. Kept short and gentle so even the quiet ones can join in comfortably.
FAQ
- Is it free? Do you need an account?
- Yes, everything is free. You don't need to sign up or log in. This site may show ads, though.
- Your conversations aren't saved on the server. The nickname you enter also stays only in this browser.
- How many cards are there? What kinds of cards can you find?
- There are 771 cards across 23 decks. They range from questions for looking back on your own to questions to share with family, partners, friends and colleagues.
- Each deck has its own feel. If you'd like to start light, open Today's Question first.
- Who is it best for—family, a partner, or friends?
- Each deck shows which relationship it suits. With Family is great for family, Deeper Together for a partner, and Switching Seats for friends.
- Either-Or Questions is an easy choice when you're meeting for the first time. If you're not sure what to pick, filter by relationship or situation at the top.
- How is this different from buying physical talk cards?
- You don't need to buy anything or install an app. Just open a link and start right away.
- There are no cards to lose or carry around. You won't get the feel of paper, though—that's where physical cards shine.
- How many people do you need? Can you use it alone?
- It's easiest with two people, but a bigger group works well too. Enter the number of people, and you'll see whose turn it is.
- You can flip through the cards on your own too. Even if you don't answer out loud, the questions stay with you.
- Is it available in languages other than Korean?
- Only Korean is available right now. Other languages are on the way.
- You can see the languages coming next in the language list in the footer.
- Can you use it for interviews or group orientations?
- Yes. For a first conversation with someone new, a group orientation, or an icebreaker, 'Today's Question' and 'Either-Or Questions' work especially well. There are no right answers, so nobody needs to prepare in advance.
- It can also help you prepare for an interview. Use 'Today's Question' to reflect on who you are these days, then explain your choices in 'Either-Or Questions' to make introducing yourself feel much easier.
- Cards made especially for interview questions are in the works. You'll see an announcement when they're ready.
Questions for Someone New · workplace-newcomer
Team-building questions to open up with a newcomer
Team-building question cards that slowly close the distance between a newcomer and an unfamiliar team.
They hold the questions the early days call for: an unfamiliar door, a first word, how to ask for help.
They help you hold off on judging each other too quickly and settle into the room slowly.