Talking Again After an Argument
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Questions to help the two of you start talking again on the night after a fight
Thirty-nine cards to help the two of you sit down face to face again after a fight.
They slowly open up the questions you need before and after making up: the words you swallowed, how you really feel, the old cycle that keeps repeating, and what to say first.
Rather than quickly sorting out who was right and who was wrong, they're arranged to help you gently find each other's feelings and what to say next.
Three steps
- Choose a deck
- Draw a card
- Take turns answering
When · with whom
2 playersCouplesLoved OnesLove
Meet each other halfway
- Hear it allHear the whole answer before you reflect
- Take your timeIf they pause, give them a moment
- Let it beYou don't need to correct them
- Choose freelyFeel free to skip any card
- Keep balanceBalance talking and listening
- Keep it hereLet what you share here stay here
A list for anyone preparing a conversation.
- Words SwallowedWords that stayed inside
- What Was UnderneathUnderneath what shows
- What You Hoped ForPictured on your own
- A Line of Your OwnA line drawn quietly
- Something You WonderA question still left
- Something OlderBegun long before
- LetterWords you want to write down
- The Shape You TakeWho shows up then
- NoticingBefore the words land
- BodySignals your body sends
- Your GuardThe moment you harden
- When You Are AloneThoughts after it goes quiet
- Growing UpWhat you watched growing up
- SettlingWhile it settles slowly
- SorryWords that stopped at your lips
- Going FirstOne step put forward
- The Moment It LoosensWhere it turned
- ListeningUntil it reaches you
- Coming to Meet YouA feeling coming across
- Letting It PassSomething set down
- Ending WellThe shape of an ending
- The Feeling I MissedWhat you did not notice then
- A Late DiscoveryVisible only afterward
- Clumsy FeelingsA time hard on you both
- GratitudeWhat you still haven't said
- Standing Up for YouThe day they stood by you
- In Their VoiceSaid from their side
- A Signal for Making UpA sign only you two know
- LaughterA moment you laughed together
- SnackWhat you keep reaching for
- AnimalsSeeing yourself in another shape
- An Old ArgumentAfter enough time
- Alike After AllWhat each reflects of the other
- One ThingIf you picked just one
- A Repeating PatternThe way it comes around
- LessonsWhat you're taking with you
- PromisesWhat you've pledged to each other
- What Worked BeforeIt worked once before
- Even SoWhat does not give way
FAQ
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- How many cards are there? What kinds of cards can you find?
- There are 771 cards across 23 decks. They range from questions for looking back on your own to questions to share with family, partners, friends and colleagues.
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- Who is it best for—family, a partner, or friends?
- Each deck shows which relationship it suits. With Family is great for family, Deeper Together for a partner, and Switching Seats for friends.
- Either-Or Questions is an easy choice when you're meeting for the first time. If you're not sure what to pick, filter by relationship or situation at the top.
- How is this different from buying physical talk cards?
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- How many people do you need? Can you use it alone?
- It's easiest with two people, but a bigger group works well too. Enter the number of people, and you'll see whose turn it is.
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- Can you use it for interviews or group orientations?
- Yes. For a first conversation with someone new, a group orientation, or an icebreaker, 'Today's Question' and 'Either-Or Questions' work especially well. There are no right answers, so nobody needs to prepare in advance.
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Talking Again After an Argument · love-fight
Questions to help the two of you start talking again on the night after a fight
Thirty-nine cards to help the two of you sit down face to face again after a fight.
They slowly open up the questions you need before and after making up: the words you swallowed, how you really feel, the old cycle that keeps repeating, and what to say first.
Rather than quickly sorting out who was right and who was wrong, they're arranged to help you gently find each other's feelings and what to say next.