With the Wedding Ahead
DecksWith the Wedding Ahead · 39 cards
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Questions for two people with a wedding ahead to prepare together
Thirty-nine cards for two people with a wedding ahead to picture the ceremony and married life together.
They slowly bring up the things you'll face while preparing, like family, promises, money, both families, housekeeping, and travel.
They're arranged so you think first about the life the two of you will live, rather than the wedding others will see.
Three steps
- Choose a deck
- Draw a card
- Take turns answering
When · with whom
2 playersCouplesLoved OnesLove
Meet each other halfway
- Hear it allHear the whole answer before you reflect
- Take your timeIf they pause, give them a moment
- Let it beYou don't need to correct them
- Choose freelyFeel free to skip any card
- Keep balanceBalance talking and listening
- Keep it hereLet what you share here stay here
A list for anyone preparing a conversation.
- FamilyA story that takes you back to your roots
- PromisesWhat you've pledged to each other
- The ReasonThe heart on the other side
- Good WishesWords for the road ahead
- WaitingWhat hasn't reached you yet
- By Your SideSomeone close to you
- PreparingWhile you are getting ready
- The Two FamiliesBetween two families
- A VowMeant to be kept long
- MorningWhere your day begins
- The CostStanding in front of numbers
- HeartWhere your heart lingers
- After a Long TimeSomeone who drifted away
- What You WearHow you decide what to wear
- MusicWhen you let the music carry you
- FoodWhat you want to taste again
- SeasonsA season that returns to you
- KeepingTo keep and look at for years
- PhotosA moment you captured
- LetterWords you want to write down
- FriendsAmong each other's people
- Your SharePiling up unmentioned
- Just the Two of YouWhen only the two remain
- Heavy DaysA day you can see the bottom
- BodySignals your body sends
- Putting It OffPushed to later
- CareLeft untouched on purpose
- Setting AsideFolded away this time
- Where You LookWhich way you look first
- Your Own WayA way only you two know
- If It Goes WrongWhere it goes slightly off
- Different WaysHousehold by household
- The Night BeforeBefore the light goes out
- At the DoorJust before stepping in
- The InvitationWords written and sent
- New NamesNewly called something else
- TravelSomewhere you want to leave for
- HouseholdThe things that keep a day running
- EncouragementWords you want to hear yourself
FAQ
- Is it free? Do you need an account?
- Yes, everything is free. You don't need to sign up or log in. This site may show ads, though.
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- How many cards are there? What kinds of cards can you find?
- There are 771 cards across 23 decks. They range from questions for looking back on your own to questions to share with family, partners, friends and colleagues.
- Each deck has its own feel. If you'd like to start light, open Today's Question first.
- Who is it best for—family, a partner, or friends?
- Each deck shows which relationship it suits. With Family is great for family, Deeper Together for a partner, and Switching Seats for friends.
- Either-Or Questions is an easy choice when you're meeting for the first time. If you're not sure what to pick, filter by relationship or situation at the top.
- How is this different from buying physical talk cards?
- You don't need to buy anything or install an app. Just open a link and start right away.
- There are no cards to lose or carry around. You won't get the feel of paper, though—that's where physical cards shine.
- How many people do you need? Can you use it alone?
- It's easiest with two people, but a bigger group works well too. Enter the number of people, and you'll see whose turn it is.
- You can flip through the cards on your own too. Even if you don't answer out loud, the questions stay with you.
- Is it available in languages other than Korean?
- Only Korean is available right now. Other languages are on the way.
- You can see the languages coming next in the language list in the footer.
- Can you use it for interviews or group orientations?
- Yes. For a first conversation with someone new, a group orientation, or an icebreaker, 'Today's Question' and 'Either-Or Questions' work especially well. There are no right answers, so nobody needs to prepare in advance.
- It can also help you prepare for an interview. Use 'Today's Question' to reflect on who you are these days, then explain your choices in 'Either-Or Questions' to make introducing yourself feel much easier.
- Cards made especially for interview questions are in the works. You'll see an announcement when they're ready.
With the Wedding Ahead · love-wedding
Questions for two people with a wedding ahead to prepare together
Thirty-nine cards for two people with a wedding ahead to picture the ceremony and married life together.
They slowly bring up the things you'll face while preparing, like family, promises, money, both families, housekeeping, and travel.
They're arranged so you think first about the life the two of you will live, rather than the wedding others will see.