With Family
For this deck




Some things are harder to say because you're family.
Family conversation, sitting in a circle and drawing one card at a time
Thirty cards for a family to sit around, draw one at a time, and answer in turn.
They start with questions that open easily, like gratitude and memories, and go on to questions that gently bring out the little hurts you've been holding inside, without wounding anyone.
They were written not to count who did more, but to help you see where each of you has been trying hard.
Three steps
- 1Choose a deck
- 2Draw a card
- 3Take turns answering
When · with whom
2–6 playersFamilyGatherings
Meet each other halfway
- Hear it allHear the whole answer before you reflect
- Take your timeIf they pause, give them a moment
- Let it beYou don't need to correct them
- Choose freelyFeel free to skip any card
- Keep balanceBalance talking and listening
- Keep it hereLet what you share here stay here
A list for anyone preparing a conversation.
- GratitudeWhat you still haven't said
- MemoriesA scene that stays with you
- HopesWhen you voice what you hope for
- GrowthWhat you're growing little by little
- ForgivenessSomething you want to release
- MorningWhere your day begins
- MealsA place where you sit together
- PhotosA moment you captured
- RulesA promise just between you
- Cheering Each Other OnSomeone you want to cheer on
- Favorite SpotWhere you stand
- RolesThe part each of you plays
- RelaxingA moment for you to rest
- Making UpA bond you want to mend
- Special DaysA day you mark as special
- PrideSomething you don't have to hide
- Passed DownWhat has been passed down to you
Decks
- Today's QuestionOne card a day, a question that speaks to youThese are question cards. Draw one a day and give it an answer. Questions of different kinds are mixed in evenly, about your heart, today, comfort, and your body, so no matter which day you draw, there is at least one that reaches your heart. Each card has a one-line follow-up question at the bottom that goes a little deeper.
- Heart WeatherThe weather closest to how your heart feels todayThirty cards for looking at your heart through the lens of the weather. Each one carries a weather name, like rainbow, fog, thunder, or sunshine, so you don't have to pin your feelings down in words. Whatever the weather, it is passing through. That is what these cards quietly tell you.
- Someday QuestionsThinking of the end, seeing today clearlyThirty-nine cards for calmly facing the end of life and what we leave behind. They ask the things that are easy to put off — how you'd like to be remembered, what you haven't yet said. So it never rushes you, a note up front says it's fine to close the cards if they get heavy.
FAQ
- Is it free? Do you need an account?
- Yes, everything is free. You don't need to sign up or log in. This site may show ads, though.
- Your conversations aren't saved on the server. The nickname you enter also stays only in this browser.
- How many cards are there? What kinds of cards can you find?
- There are 771 cards across 23 decks. They range from questions for looking back on your own to questions to share with family, partners, friends and colleagues.
- Each deck has its own feel. If you'd like to start light, open Today's Question first.
- Who is it best for—family, a partner, or friends?
- Each deck shows which relationship it suits. With Family is great for family, Deeper Together for a partner, and Switching Seats for friends.
- Either-Or Questions is an easy choice when you're meeting for the first time. If you're not sure what to pick, filter by relationship or situation at the top.
- How is this different from buying physical talk cards?
- You don't need to buy anything or install an app. Just open a link and start right away.
- There are no cards to lose or carry around. You won't get the feel of paper, though—that's where physical cards shine.
- How many people do you need? Can you use it alone?
- It's easiest with two people, but a bigger group works well too. Enter the number of people, and you'll see whose turn it is.
- You can flip through the cards on your own too. Even if you don't answer out loud, the questions stay with you.
- Is it available in languages other than Korean?
- Only Korean is available right now. Other languages are on the way.
- You can see the languages coming next in the language list in the footer.
- Can you use it for interviews or group orientations?
- Yes. For a first conversation with someone new, a group orientation, or an icebreaker, 'Today's Question' and 'Either-Or Questions' work especially well. There are no right answers, so nobody needs to prepare in advance.
- It can also help you prepare for an interview. Use 'Today's Question' to reflect on who you are these days, then explain your choices in 'Either-Or Questions' to make introducing yourself feel much easier.
- Cards made especially for interview questions are in the works. You'll see an announcement when they're ready.
With Family · family-together
Family conversation, sitting in a circle and drawing one card at a time
Thirty cards for a family to sit around, draw one at a time, and answer in turn.
They start with questions that open easily, like gratitude and memories, and go on to questions that gently bring out the little hurts you've been holding inside, without wounding anyone.
They were written not to count who did more, but to help you see where each of you has been trying hard.